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“Dear Tom and family. Sorry for the loss of your wife Kay. May you be guided in the days ahead.I will remember all of our in my prayersNancy ...Read More »
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“Dearest Julie and family, my condolences and prayers of strength for you and your family. We love you and miss you at AFE. Your students miss you and...Read More »
3 of 55 | Posted by: Heather Grabarski

“Kay was a beloved client of Mine when I worked at Fantastic Sams/Newstyle salon in Menasha. I haven't seen her since I quit the profession. She was...Read More »
4 of 55 | Posted by: Elizabeth Luebke - Neenah, WI

“I am so sorry to hear of Kay's passing. She was a great neighbor many years ago when we lived across the street. Hugs to you all. ”
5 of 55 | Posted by: Chris Putman - Menasha, WI

“Dear Tom and family, So sorry to hear of your great loss of wife and mother. Our thoughts are with you ; the memories will last forever. Take Care...Read More »
6 of 55 | Posted by: Gary and Fran Weber of Oshkosh

“Tom and Family, I am so sorry for your loss of such a wonderful Lady, Wife, Mom, Grandmother and Friend to many. Please accept my sincere sympathy. I...Read More »
7 of 55 | Posted by: A friend

“Our deepest sympathy to all of your family. ”
8 of 55 | Posted by: Brian and Judy Garvey

“Mr. Heroux, Julie and Chad, I am so very sorry about your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this time. Mrs. Heroux was a...Read More »
9 of 55 | Posted by: Jill Stumpf

“I was so sad to hear about Kay. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time... ”
10 of 55 | Posted by: Kathy (Laus) Farr

11 of 55 | Posted by: A friend

“Please accept my condolences on the loss of Kay. Kay worked with me for the Menasha Health Department for school health screenings for a period if...Read More »
12 of 55 | Posted by: Loretta Kjemhus

“I was so very sorry to hear of this. I had the pleasure of working with Kay at the Menasha Health Department when she assisted us with screenings in...Read More »
13 of 55 | Posted by: Susan Nett

“My deepest sympathy to all of you. She was indeed a special person and I have many happy memories of the times we spent together years ago at...Read More »
14 of 55 | Posted by: Jean (Jim) Chew

“Tom, Julie and Chad, so very sorry in your loss. Our prayers are being offered up for her. Our sincere sympathy, Pat & Pete ”
15 of 55 | Posted by: Pat LaValle - Menasha, WI

“Tom, Julie and Chad: Please accept our sympathy on the passing of Kay. During our time at Youth Sports we enjoyed working with her and cheering on...Read More »
16 of 55 | Posted by: Lou and Kathy Malczewski

“Chad, Lisa and family . So sorry to hear of the loss of your mother . Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time . Prayers of...Read More »
17 of 55 | Posted by: Lakosky family

“Dear Heroux family I am so sorry for your loss. Kay was such a sweet person, Always greeted everyone with a smile and asked how you were doing and...Read More »
18 of 55 | Posted by: Cyndi Morris - Appleton, WI

“Tom, Julie and Chad,Our whole family is heartbroken by your loss. For Jamil and I, Kay was a blessing in so many ways. For over 20 years, we worked...Read More »
19 of 55 | Posted by: Kitty Alaily - Bellevue, WA

“Tom, Chad and Julie:I am so sorry for you loss. Every time I saw Kay she had a smile on her face and was always so happy to hear about what was new...Read More »
20 of 55 | Posted by: Michelle Laeyendecker - Friend

“Tom and family,I'm so sorry for your loss. May Kay rest in eternal peace and may your memories comfort you at this most difficult time.Virginia...Read More »
21 of 55 | Posted by: Virginia Johnson - Combined Locks, WI

“Tom and family.Sorry for your loss.Duke and Dawn Gyrion ”
22 of 55 | Posted by: Duke Gyrion - Neenah, WI

“Your family is in my thoughts. I appreciate all the kindness that Kay showed me when I was a child in your home. ”
23 of 55 | Posted by: Maggie Mahoney

“Chad, Julie and family. I'm so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. There are no words to describe losing a parent. God's Blessings and Grace...Read More »
24 of 55 | Posted by: Denise (Ziolkowski) Struebing -St. Mary's Grade School Classmate

“Tom and Family,I was deeply saddened to learn this news. Kay was a very special. Please know that all of you will be in our thoughts and prayers. ”
25 of 55 | Posted by: Dan Rippl - Kimberly, WI

“Dear Tom & Family, We are so sorry to hear of this very profound loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts & prayers. ...Read More »
26 of 55 | Posted by: A friend

“What a loss for all that knew Kay. Kay became my sister Joan's best friend in eighth grade, a friendship that was strong and constant for 57 years. ...Read More »
27 of 55 | Posted by: Jay Schievelbein - Folsom, CA

“Tom:I am so sorry for your loss. My sympathies and prayers for you and your family. Shirley Mottard ”
28 of 55 | Posted by: Shirley Mottard - Cedarburg, WI

“Dear Tom and family, We are so sorry for your loss. Kay was a beautiful person and a pleasure to have met. Our thoughts and prayers are with you...Read More »
29 of 55 | Posted by: Tom and Barb Langenohl

“Tom and family, Sandra and I are so sorry for the loss of Kay, you both always made us feel so welcome, she will be missed. You are in our thought...Read More »
30 of 55 | Posted by: Dennis & Sandra Nichols

“Dear Kay's Family. Kay will always hold a very special place in my heart. She walked beside me as I went through my cancer treatment and was always...Read More »
31 of 55 | Posted by: Sharyl LaFaive

“I am so sorry for your loss!! Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you!! ”
32 of 55 | Posted by: Kevin & Kim Feldkamp

“I am so sorry to hear about Kay's passing. She often was a substitute secretary at the high school, and she fit in like one of the family. She will...Read More »
33 of 55 | Posted by: Darci DeMeio

“Dear Tom and Family--A beautiful picture and tribute to Kay--I was in touch with Claudia--I have memories of you and my brother Billie Starr-- Know...Read More »
34 of 55 | Posted by: Kay (Morgan) Vetter--Menasha

“Dearest Julie and family, We are so sorry for your loss. Know that your mother and your family are in our prayers. If there is anything you...Read More »
35 of 55 | Posted by: Pamela Bilderback

“We are still in disbelief that this has happened ..... It absolutely shatters our hearts in pieces for so many reasons. We are so very sorry for...Read More »
36 of 55 | Posted by: Tony and Bennie Slomski

“Julie and family, We are so sorry for your loss. Your all in our thoughts and prayers. ”
37 of 55 | Posted by: Donald and Robyn Skelton

“Julie, Dylan and Molly~ I am so sorry for your loss. Please know your in my thoughts and prayers. God's Peace~ ”
38 of 55 | Posted by: Michelle Pollex

“Lord, be with Kay's family at this difficult time. Let them feel the love she poured out on others, come back to them on this time of need. Encourage...Read More »
39 of 55 | Posted by: Heather Durham - Appleton, WI

“Tom and family, My deepest sympathy to you with your loss. My thoughts are with you. Steve ”
40 of 55 | Posted by: Steve Schmidt

“Tom, I am so very sorry for your loss. Kay was such a nice lady to talk to. You are in my prayers. Peg, RN, Affinity Anticoag ”
41 of 55 | Posted by: Peg Schwalbach

“A very kind and loving woman I feel honored to have met. Prayers to all her family and friends ”
42 of 55 | Posted by: Kim Howard

“She will be missed by all who knew her. She was always willing to help out in any way she could. Sorry for your loss! ”
43 of 55 | Posted by: Cathy Basler

“Heaven gained a very sweet and special angel. Kay helped me so much when I started at MJSD. We will miss her genuine kindness and friendly smile....Read More »
44 of 55 | Posted by: Dawn Romme - Menasha, WI

“Dear Judy, Bill and the Family of Kay. I am so sorry for your loss. I knew Kay in high school and she was always so much fun. She went to Xavier...Read More »
45 of 55 | Posted by: Sue Green - Appleton, WI

“There was not a sweeter lady than Kay. I will miss her dearly. I am so sorry for your loss. ”
46 of 55 | Posted by: Peggy DeLeeuw

“Kay was an extremely kind and caring person and heaven will now be a little nicer with her in it! We will miss her immensely here on earth, but she...Read More »
47 of 55 | Posted by: Tracie Schmidt - Menasha, WI

“We are so sorry and saddened to hear about Kay. She was a very special person who always had a kind word and a smile to share. We so enjoyed the...Read More »
48 of 55 | Posted by: Pete and Erin Schulz

“Tom and family, Kay was the most amazing woman that I had the opportunity to work with 12 years ago. I had shoulder surgery back in September, and...Read More »
49 of 55 | Posted by: Lori Cooley - Appleton

“Our thoughts and prayers for the whole Heroux family. ”
50 of 55 | Posted by: Sue & Gary Simonsen

“I had the pleasure of meeting Kay when she was a substitute in the school district. She had a way of making everyone feel good. Always a smile and a...Read More »
51 of 55 | Posted by: Patti Calder - MENASHA, WI

“Tom you and your family are in our prayers. May God give you the strength during this time of loss. ”
52 of 55 | Posted by: Bill & Jane Kramer

“Words cannot express the deep sadness we feel for Tom, Julie, and Chad. Our thoughts and prayers go out to them at this difficult time. ”
53 of 55 | Posted by: Chris & Don Laeyendecker

“Kay is the sweetest person ever. She was always willing to help everyone - I will miss her dearly. ”
54 of 55 | Posted by: Peggy DeLeeuw - coworker

“Kay has got to be the sweetest person I've met in a long long time! She made a point to get to know me and light right up when she saw me, as if she...Read More »
55 of 55 | Posted by: Joann Smith - Menasha, WI

Kay L. (Becker) Heroux, loving wife, mother, grandmother, sister and friend, age 70 of Menasha, died unexpectedly Friday, March 17th, 2017 at her home. Kay was born March 2nd, 1947 in Appleton to Roman J. and Lucille (Crowe) Becker. Kay graduated from Xavier High School in 1965 and then attended Fox Valley Technical College. After technical college, Kay worked at Central Paper Company in Menasha where she met and married Tom Heroux in 1968. Kay and Tom had 2 children, Julie A. (Heroux) Wysocky, Friendship, Wisconsin and Chad T. Heroux, Victoria, Minnesota. Kay is survived by Tom, her husband of 48 years, her children, Julie Wysocky (Steve Van Etten, fiancé) and Chad Heroux (Lisa Thompson-Heroux), grandchildren Dylan & Molly Wysocky, Addison Heroux, Tyler, Hanna, & Kiki Thompson, her 3 sisters, Lois (Earl) Kahler, JoAnn (Jim) Urban, and Judy (Bill) Prink, brother-in-law Mike (Pat) Heroux, sisters-in-law Sue (Mike) Bombinski and Jean (Ralph) Sitzberger as well as 16 nieces and nephews, 33 great nieces and nephews and many friends. Kay was preceded in death by her parents, Roman and Lucille Becker, mother and father-in-law Ann and Laurence "Red" Heroux. Kay was loved by all who knew her kind and caring ways, including those she met in her time as a substitute secretary in the Menasha Joint School District. When she wasn't working, Kay enjoyed spending time with her family and planning family events, following her grandkids in their extra-curricular events, sewing with her sisters, spending time with her Bible study group, and getting together with and playing games with friends. She will be so dearly missed by all whose lives she touched. May she rest in peace and continue to watch over all her family and friends. She will forever have a place in our hearts. There will be a Memorial Mass on Wednesday, March 22, 2017 at 11:30am at St. Mary Catholic Church, 528 Second Street in Menasha, with Rev. Paul Paider officiating. There will be a visitation at the church on Wednesday morning from 9:00am to 11:30am. For more information and to express condolences, please visit